How does mediation work?

Mediation is a voluntary process conducted in a neutral safe environment. It helps those involved in family breakdown or conflict to reach their own decisions about the future and to communicate better. Your mediator will guide you in making practical decisions, for example decisions relating to your finances, property and arrangements for children.

Mediation has been proven to reduce some of the emotional stress involved in family conflict and relationship breakdown and can save unnecessary legal costs. The National Audit Office reported that family disputes that are resolved through mediation are cheaper, quicker and according to academic research less acrimonious than those that are settled through the courts. However it is not a substitute for legal advice and clients are encouraged to consult solicitors when necessary.

Mediation is confidential except in circumstances where the mediator believes any adult or child could be at serious risk of harm.

The mediator's job is to try and help you reach the best decisions for you and your family.

What happens next?

You will meet with one of our mediators to find out more about mediation and consider how it might be useful. There is no charge for this session. You can either attend this on your own or with your partner. After this initial meeting, if all parties, including the mediator, decide that mediation can help, a series of joint meetings are arranged. Decisions made during the mediation process are written down and can be turned into legal documents by your solicitors, if you both agree.